Blog #2
My suggested plans to add our family stories to the O’Sullivans
from Bantry Bay
September 25, 2016
The goal of what will become our
contribution to the family history is to have something to pass on to the next
generation. We want them to be able to trace family roots if and when that
might be of interest to them. Maybe someday they will drive through CT and
wonder where in heck the family used to call home or where might be this or
that cemetery. Maybe someone in another generation of elementary school kids
will have an assignment to find out a little bit about their families and where
they come from. This volume can be our
contribution to answers to those questions.
We will celebrate the contributions that women
have made to the O’Sullivan clan. Remembering “Gimba” and all she did gives us the
incentive to understand and include the story of Rita, Anita, Karen as they
joined the journey of the O’Sullivans of this generation. Adriana and Ginney
are already part of the next generation.
By the same token the stories of
female O’Sullivans and their families are part of the record we wish to keep.
From my sister Kathy to my grand daughter Marjorie Grace and all in between and
beyond, I hope you see this as a shared story. It certainly has been shared
lives.
I will be loading a digital version
of the original O’Sullivans of Bantry Bay. I also have made PDF version of the History
of Orange (CT) and will load that.
I have constructed a family tree on
my Mac with software by the name of Reunion software. I do not know yet how to
share that.
I also have many pictures that I have
digitized to my computer. I transferred many slides over into the new mode of
computer memory and also have taken pictures of things with my Iphone and
stored them as well. I will try to learn how to up load and share all of them
if that what we need to do.
When Dad died in 1996, I seem to
have been selected to be the family historian following Dad’s footsteps. Since
I retired two years ago, I have been going through the boxes of odds and ends
that I inherited from the house at 954 Orange Center Road. From them I have garnered a number of short
stories to add to the record of the previous two generations. I will post them
in the near future.
I also worked with my brothers,
Jeff, Patrick and David to work up some ideas of what they will want to
contribute to this record. Those are in various stages of finish. I will post
them as we get them in better shape and I have the thumbs up to do so.
I have worked with Peggy Ann to bring a
history of the Hessions to the list as well.
For the past eighty years the history of the O’Sullivans of Orange CT
and the Hessions of Derby have been intimately connected. The connection was
cemented by the wedding of Thomas and Marjorie in 1939. It did not end with the
death of Marjorie in February 1986. In the years, Peggy Ann Obidinski (nee
Hession), daughter of Marjorie’s brother Evey has been a stalwart member of the
family. She and her husband Ed have made their house at 4 Wedgewood Drive,
Woodbridge, CT the gathering place for parties and hanging out especially for
summer poolside picnics- with the barbeque smoking and the bar always open. We
add that to the story as well.
I have typed up an electronic
version of reflections Uncle Robert wrote in May of this year. He died in early
June. He was planning on giving me the pages he wrote when he came to our
August 2016 “90/70 Birthday Party for Sis and Kathy” at Racebrook in mid
August. His daughter Nancy was kind enough to give a copy to me and I
transcribed it and will share it.
All of this is to encourage each
and everyone who is part of the blog and part of the family to write the
memories they want to share. Send them along and with your permission I will
post them.
Certainly I would welcome any corrections and improvements offered. Are
there suggestions of how to do this better or any other process or content
ideas? My thought is that what we can create a wonderful and useful memory
dialogue together.